Friends

Before Atticus and Dietrich were born, I prayed that they would be friends -- really close friends, best friends. And I keep praying for that nearly every day. In the last couple weeks I feel like God has really worked in Atticus' heart and head through a couple of key conversations Brad has had with him about how good it feels and how good it is to share and about what fun it is to be a teacher (and that he could be a teacher to his little brother too). Suddenly he started bringing Dietrich toys and finding creative ways to involve him in whatever he was playing. He's even decided to get Dietrich breakfast "me-self" (all on his own) in the morning -- before he even asks for his own breakfast.

A few days ago Atticus lined up these chairs and said it was the bus and that Dietrich should get in so they could drive to work. Later Atticus said it was Dietrich's turn to drive -- so they changed places and Atticus gave Dietrich his own "steering wheel".

Today at the potluck after church I was holding Dietrich while I was eating, I turned my head to see Atticus carefully feeding his brother small spoonfuls of applesauce.

When we returned home mid-afternoon from church both boys were pretty wound up though still very much needing naps. Brad and I put them to bed in their room. We said "We love you. Have good naps." and left the room. A few seconds later giggles and thumping and squealing ensued. We waited awhile, opened their door and Dietrich is standing up in his crib jumping up and down. Atticus is doing acrobatic tricks on his bed to get his brother to laugh. Then Dietrich would try do the trick and Atticus would just crack up. We closed the door and let them play like this for an hour before grabbing Dietrich and taking him in our room to put him down for an actual nap. (Atticus never did nap, by the way -- though Brad did make him stay in his room reading books for another hour.)

I am so very thankful God has been working this enjoyment and play between (in in) my sons. It is so good for them and gladdens my heart so very much.